For those of you who are long time readers of my blog, you might remember that the very first posting that I made on my blog was almost two years ago on January 29th, 2005 and was on the subject of Love Cake (see my original Love Cake article). It seemed like a relevant topic with which to start off my blog as Love cake has had an important history in my family and it was being made for the first time in many years at that time.
So fast forward to about a three weeks ago when we met at my Aunt Marlene’s place to talk about how we were going to divide up some of the cooking for the Christmas dinner which was going to be held at Marlene’s place this year. All of us were given specific dishes to make and I had also volunteered to make a Love cake as part of my assigned cooking tasks.
While I had been anxious to make Love cake on my own for some time now, there’s a fairly high expectation in my family of what Love cake should taste like. All of us had literally grown up on this as my grandmother had made it regularly year after year since when I was a kid. By all estimates, this recipe has been in my mother side of the family for at least 75 years. If my grandmother’s mother had made it before her then it would mean that it would perhaps have over 100 years of history in the family.
All of this was running through my mind on Wednesday night as I started the first night of what would be a two night process of making this Love cake for the first time. To say that the expectations would be high is not overstating the case by much. My family is normally an easy going lot but if I knew that if I were to screw up this recipe, I’d be changing my name and be forced to move out of town in the dead of night.
The preparation for making the cake started about two weeks ago when I started to collect the more exotic ingredients for the recipe. Items like black cardamom seeds and whole nutmeg could all be found in my local Save on Foods stores but they mostly all came in large packages which was much more than I needed. I ended up buying a number of the spices from a small shop on Fraser Street which sold Indian spices in bulk and the lot of them cost no more than about 50 cents.
Part of the preparation that I did the night before was mostly the grinding of the spices, sugar and cashews. As I was going to make the Love cake on a weekday night after work, I didn’t have time to do everything in one night so I split it over two nights.
The recipe that I documented when making the Love cake last year at Marlene’s involved grinding the cashews with a manual grinder as shown in this picture:

Not having such a device, I ended up using a small food processor. The end result was not as consistent in size as a manual grinder but it would suffice for the recipe. One of the other critical stages was to grind up the four main spices that made the core flavour of the cake: cardamom seeds, cloves, cinnamon and nutmeg. All of these spices were bought in their original hard form and not ground so they all went into my blender and after a few minutes on high speed resulted in a mixture that filled the kitchen with the most exotic aroma imaginable!
Sidebar: It’s now three days since I made the Love cake and I have washed my blender about 4 times but have been unable to remove the residue embedded into the plastic walls of the inside of the blender which was made by these spices.
The next day, the real baking started.
The timing that drove all of this baking was that I wanted to have the cake finished before December 24th and it needed two full days to sit before being able to serve it. That meant that Thursday after work was dedicated to a few hours in the kitchen.
The basis for the batter that makes up Love cake is sugar, the ground cashews and eggs. 14 eggs. Later on in the recipe the toasted wheatlets are added along with almost a full pound of butter. The batter is so heavy and thick at this point that it takes every last bit of power from my KitchenAid mixer just to turn the mixing paddles. If my mixer had one of the less powerful motors, I suspect that it would have burned out after about 5 minutes. Keep this in mind if you plan on making this recipe yourself.
Once all of the ingredients were mixed into the batter (including the ground spices and quarter cup of brandy), it went into the paper-lined baking pan. The notes that my aunt Marlene gave us called for the pan to be lined with not one, but two layers of brown paper bags, greased with butter.

However since I haven’t seen a paper grocery bag in about a decade, I used two layers of brown wrapping paper instead – something that we have in good supply as we have been wrapping Christmas gifts this week.
The Love cake went into the oven and after about 2 hours came out and then proceeded to sit on the top of the stove cooling for the next two days while I anxiously awaited my opportunity to test out the flavour. This happened to be this morning and I can only say that I wasn’t disappointed. In the time that I have been writing this article I have been back to the kitchen twice for successively larger pieces of Love cake.
Over the next two days I’ll have the opportunity to offer my cake to my other family members but I think that they will agree that this Love cake is ready to move forward for the next generation.
Baden
Baden, you and Wendy were probably too young and that’s why you don’t remember the occasion that first brought you to The Kettle. Our cousin Perrine and her husband Dave were visiting here from Oz and wanted to take the family out to ‘a nice place’.
Dad asked me if I could recommend a place and I used to work just up the street from there. Went there a lot for lunch…I agree, it is a very nice restaurant!
Peter